The Christian lives a many faceted life. He exerts influence one way or the other
in several realms. God has dealt with each of these, and the Christian ought to
know what God expects of him as he operates in these realms. Let us consider these
realms one by one.
THE CHURCH - The Christian is one who has obeyed the gospel, and hence a recipient of all
spiritual blessings (Eph. 1:3). But with these blessings also comes responsibility.
In his relationship with the church, how will the Christian demonstrate his Christianity?
First, he will unite himself with a congregation of other Christians, and as a
part of that congregation, will be an active part of it. He will be more than
a "bench warmer" among the group he has cast his lot with. He will grow spiritually,
and the way to do this is to first be faithful in his attendance at the services
of the church. He will take part in its work and worship, and can be counted on
to help in both physical and spiritual matters that may arise. In spiritual matters
he will be an example in teaching, praying, singing, giving and encouraging others
to spiritual growth. In physical matters, he will show concern for the material
needs of others, and do what he can do meet those needs. In short, he will learn
to be a giver, and not always be a taker.
THE HOME - As a father/husband, he will treat his wife and children with the proper respect and regard. He will
show that he understands that his wife is the "weaker vessel" (1 Pet. 3:7), and
knowing this, will put her welfare ahead of his own. He will demonstrate that
she is the supreme object of his earthly affections, concern and protection. Concerning
his children, he will rear them with spiritual and godly values (Eph. 6:4). He
will be patient with them, knowing that youth will make it's mistakes. He disciplines
them properly when the need arises, for he knows it is for their benefit. He will
praise them for well doing, and not be a continual source of criticism. As a wife/mother, she will submit to her husband (Eph. 5:22; 1 Pet. 3:5f). Her life will be a
glory to him (Pro. 31:23). She knows it is her duty to “guide the house” (1 Tim.
). She realizes her natural, God-given talents that are designed by God to run
the affairs of her household. As a mother, she will ask herself, “am I being a
Lois and Eunice who is molding my children into what God wants them to be?” It
may be that a wife/mother on occasion must work outside the home – but when this
is done for no other reason than to merely have the “things” of this world, she
does her family an injustice. As a son/daughter the Christian will be obedient to his parents (Eph. 6:1-3), and will bear the
responsibilities those parents give him or her. He will learn such great lessons
as found in the story of the “Prodigal Son” (Lk. 15), that youth does not have
the wisdom to deal with the affairs of life as they should be dealt with.
IN SOCIETY - Jesus knew that his disciples had to live "in the world" (John
) - and so do you and I! In society, the Christian will realize that he is "the
salt of the earth; the light of the world" (Matt. 5:13f). In his language, he will be decent and pure (Col. 4:6; Tit. 28). In the literature that he reads, he will involve himself in that which edifies. That may include
a wide range of material and topics, but always at the base of it will be the
God's word. In dress, he will be modest and decent (1 Tim. 2:9), and that includes garments that cover
and not expose the body. This, by the way, applies to both es. In the company he keeps, he will not run with the crowd that denigrates God and his principles.
If they will not make the necessary changes, then the Christian ought not company
with such. His "special friends" will be those who have the proper regard for
God and spiritual matters. It is tragic when Christians, old or young, had rather
be with worldly associates than with Christians. In his amusements, one's Christianity may be shown as he makes sure they are wholesome in nature.
Probably most movies today are not fit for the Christian to feast upon, and that
is true regarding television as well. He will make sure that his entertainment
does not detract from his spirituality. In citizenship, he will be an example of a law abiding person, promoting the things that make
for peace (Rom.
; Heb.
). He will render unto Caesar the things that are his, as well as giving to God
what is his. He will do what he can to make his community a better place in which
to live, and will be known "in the gates of the city" as a person who does right
even when it may be easier to do otherwise.
IN WORK - God has called upon his people to be industrious, and to labor for their daily
bread. In such a field, one is usually either in one place or another - labor
or management. As an employee, the Christian will be the best one his employer pays! He will give the proverbial
"honest day's work for the honest day's pay" (Eph. 5:6-8). He will not be lazy
and idle; he will not cheat his employer (Pro.
; Matt. 25:26). As an employer, the Christian will respect those who work for him, and treat them right. He will
learn to imitate the good man, Boaz (see Ruth 2:4)! He may be the "boss," but
such does not give him priority over his workers in his standing with God!
How may I show my Christianity? God has given us guidelines, and when we respect
those in all areas in which we function, both ourselves and those around us will
benefit immensely. - Bill Moseley
AND ANOTHER THING ...
(What Do You Look Like?)
Have you ever known anyone who was called by something, that in the mind of others,
they resembled? How well I remember my high school class, and we were real good
at it! Had one kid who stood about 6' 3" and weighed very bit of 110 pounds. He
had arms and legs that looked like ropes, and about as long as a cowboy's lasso.
What else could we call him but "Spider?" Then there was another kid who was
taller than "Spider, but he weighed over 400 pounds, and went all through high
school answering to "Jumbo." I can still see another one, sort of normal height,
but with real short legs. Had a big torso and stomach that hung over his belt.
And so naturally, he became "the Heap." They didn't seem to mind, and so the names
stuck.
It occurs to me that such might also be the case in spiritual matters. Do you
look like a Christian? Oh, I don't mean physically, but do people call you a "kind
person" because they see kindness in you? Are you known as an "unselfish person"
because folks see that trait in you?
Whether you like it or not, and right or wrong, folks will refer to you by the
qualities they see in your life. When they see how you live and act, can they
say, "there goes a Christian?" If so, that is the highest compliment you can receive.
What do you look like? - Bill Moseley